Madame Simone

Sex worker, activist, coach, speaker

Main focus: Sex work, destigmatisation

Twitter handle: @simone_madame

Websites/blogs: , ,

Languages: German, English

City: Cologne, Hamburg

State: North Rhine-Westphalia

Country: Germany

Topics: prostitution, bdsm

Services: Talk, Moderation, Workshop management, Consulting, Coaching, Interview

  Willing to travel for an event.

  Willing to talk for nonprofit.

Personal note:

Sex workers are experts when it comes to their own industry and the working and living realities in sex work! We are the ideal speakers for your events, panel discussions and trainings. As an activist and sex worker, I am happy to offer my expertise for lectures, workshops and interviews.


I am a sex worker and sex work activist working as a dominatrix and counsellor and have been a board member of the Berufsverband erotische und sexuelle Dienstleistungen e.V. since 2021.

I contributed to the Sex Work Conference 2021 in Stuttgart as an idea generator and co-organiser.

I like to describe myself as "the friendly dominatrix next door", I am Swiss, mother of two adult children, married and live with chronic illnesses.

For personal reasons, I am particularly concerned with the issues of queer and trans hostility in sex work, as well as general discrimination against sex workers who are marginalised in multiple ways.

I don't mince words when it comes to addressing issues within the sex work industry.

My main focus:
Discrimination and stigma in sex work
Power relations in sex work
Sex work and relationships
Sex work and parenting
Sex work and chronic illness
BDSM and various forms of sexuality

However, I am also open to enquiries about other areas of sex work.